Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

Twitter Is A Dating App For Making Friends

here’s some ideas about how to have fun on twitter dot com

(this is the thread I will send to people on their first day here)


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

first: tweet a lot

there are no bad tweets. you are a hose, so gush!

let yourself flow & the algorithm will be your editor (posts that your followers find interesting are automatically promoted & the rest are demoted)


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

reply a lot

consider yourself invited into every conversation. if you want to make friends you have to visit other people’s parties

large account = dinner party host

smol account = be the kind of guest that gets invited back


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

follow a lot of people

at first, follow anyone that seems vaguely interesting. later on, prune out the ones that don’t spark joy

you can start with this list of people I find fun & friendly:

https://x.com/i/lists/1518564626102902785


don’t follow celebs/brands bc they are not seeking friends


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

read Visa’s twitter strategy guide to learn what other games you can play here

2019-02-10

twitter_rpg_strategy_guide.txt


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

TWITTER IS A DATING APP FOR MAKING FRIENDS

the usual flow looks like this:

  1. reply to each other a bunch
  2. follow each other (“mutuals”)
  3. private messages (DM = direct message or gc = group chat)
  4. video call
  5. local meetup
  6. make babies/start a cult

Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

mute or block unfriendly people

mute = you won’t see them anymore

block = they won’t see you either

don’t hesitate to use these great features! a tiny fraction of twitter users are mean. with one click you can be rid of them forever. don’t think twice, just do it


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

opt out of the culture war

polarised political arguments is twitters most popular and least fun game. don’t play!

mute words that you don’t want to see (eg I mute words like “gun control” “biden” “cops”)


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-07

you can make money on twitter without being annoying:

  1. have a buy now button 1 click away (link in yr bio or pinned tweet)
  2. collect email addresses so you can take your audience with you one day (eg substack)
  3. occasionally talk about the thing you sell when it is relevant

Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2023-03-16

here’s an excellent conversation about how you can use twitter to make friends, build a business, and follow your spiritual path all at the same time

2023-03-15

If I end up doing strange things on twitter in the next few weeks, blame @this_is_silvia —

https://youtu.be/ZotCxXHN2qI


diddlylinks @diddlylinks 2022-06-08

What kinds of things do you reply?


Richard D. Bartlett @RichDecibels 2022-06-08

try to guess what game the original poster is offering and then play the next move

eg interested questions, tangential riffs, respectful disagreement, simple encouragement, etc